eal Housewives of Rhode Island star Rulla Nehme Pontarelli sits down with Parade for her most candid interview yet — addressing husband Brian's affair head-on, clarifying the NDA controversy, shutting down the Spanish teacher rumor, weighing in on castmate Kelsey Swanson's two-boyfriend situation, and explaining where she really stands with Jo-Ellen Tiberi. Plus, why she refuses to be a "lady of leisure."