Seems that post-menopausal women have kept tight-lipped about this one. On social media this week, thousands of women have been shocked to learn that part of the vulva can actually disappear during “the change.” “These labia minora — when you’re a baby you don’t have them, you grow them in puberty, and you lose them in menopause,” Dr. Rachel Rubin, a board-certified urologist and sexual medicine expert, recently said in a TikTok. That was certainly news to the video’s 1.2 million viewers, most of whom were women who had no idea that’s what was in store for their own bodies