Before the big wedding in New York, before she was a Mrs., Taylor Swift was the youngest woman ever to be inducted into the Songwriters Hall of Fame. At the ceremony, she said something that grabbed our ear: "Sensitivity is not weakness. You can be sensitive and durable." As arguably the most famous musical poet of our time, we always love her way with words, but that idea felt particularly meaningful to women, wives and mothers. We asked author and speaker Connie Sokol to share three ways we can balance sensitivity and durability.