"Gramnesia" is a term licensed therapist Dr. Ali Quaid describes as the phenomenon where grandparents forget what it's like to have young children. This amnesia of early parenting days can lead to misunderstandings between parents and grandparents, especially during the holiday season. Studio 5 Parenting Contributor Heather Johnson shared that one of the most significant shifts in parenting is the emphasis on emotions and opinions. Unlike 20 years ago, when children were often seen and not heard, today's parenting involves more gentle and emotionally attentive approaches.