Breaking up with your debt is hard to do. So is paying for a wedding. But it’s possible to do both at the same time…without going crazy. Carmen Perez did it. In under three years. She’s a 32-year-old New Yorker who had big money goals: to pay off $57K of debt from a combo of student loans, credit card debt, and a car loan...and get married without adding to those balances. Here’s how she did it. PS: Asking for a Friend videos highlight one woman's story. They do not necessarily reflect theSkimm's point of view.